tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8182600.post1728189932635732176..comments2023-10-20T03:20:00.060-05:00Comments on chez bez: Appreciate and accept.chez bezhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12916276882977632803noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8182600.post-60907845605958333432008-08-13T17:59:00.000-05:002008-08-13T17:59:00.000-05:00I think it should be pretty obvious by now that "j...I think it should be pretty obvious by now that "jerk" is not a word any of us would use to describe you. However, a healthy dose of introspection is not a bad thing--you're probably having these feelings for a reason, and it will come to light in time. <BR/><BR/>Just don't overanalyze. I agree with the rest--relax, know you're loved, and you know where I am if you need me.holly wynnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08667113630829157468noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8182600.post-18700307556993977942008-08-13T17:46:00.000-05:002008-08-13T17:46:00.000-05:00You're not a jerk. Would we be reading your blog ...You're not a jerk. Would we be reading your blog if you were? Would you have such a wonderful wife?<BR/>Obviously your mom did not raise a jerk!<BR/><BR/>BUT...you do raise a huge questions for me. I've had one date with a guy and talked to him daily for several weeks for an hour or so at a time and he says he really likes me...but I have never said it back cause I really don't know how I feel at this point. HERE is the thing:<BR/><BR/>He asked me what I liked about him! I am the kind of person who would rather stick a needle in my eye than hurt someone's feelings (not a good character trait) so I listed off a few nice things about him. <BR/><BR/>Is he needy? Weird? A jerk?Bar L.https://www.blogger.com/profile/11100008292699584336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8182600.post-65914615974877638162008-08-13T14:21:00.000-05:002008-08-13T14:21:00.000-05:00Even though I've not met you in person, I cannot i...Even though I've not met you in person, I cannot imagine you being a jerk. Friendships are funny things. People come and go in and out of your life all of the time as we age and grow. I've lost some of my friends due to marriage and kids (with me being single and all) but the ones I still have are the important ones and so are the ones I've yet to meet. Oh, I wanted to tell you, our old friend, Amy, lost her Dad on Friday. I just found out yesterday and thought you would want to know.peachhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00921072312332923207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8182600.post-55996618795334284992008-08-13T11:29:00.000-05:002008-08-13T11:29:00.000-05:00You're definitely not a jerk :)I've had these same...You're definitely not a jerk :)<BR/><BR/>I've had these same feelings lately. Relationships I thought were great, not so much.<BR/>I always felt I was a good friend although I know I can be a bit reserved and cautious. <BR/>To have relationships just fizzle always makes me question myself instead of them. "What did I do?", "What's wrong with me?". Human nature I guess.Leesahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11436139686290653801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8182600.post-73307027948869521732008-08-13T09:19:00.000-05:002008-08-13T09:19:00.000-05:00I've had this same discussion with my wife several...I've had this same discussion with my wife several times. There's an age difference between her and I of almost 20 years and most of her old friends, sorority sisters and family members have gotten married and moved on and she was having, and probably still does have trouble understanding that these things change. Relationships change and sometimes the things you have in common with your best friends change as we mature, grow and change. Something I realized quite a few years ago, but she's just really starting to experience. Just accept that your wife and family love you the way you are and "let it be". Suck it up Dude, have a beer and relax.The Old Man and His Doghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09005513596375360905noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8182600.post-16776139217955590912008-08-13T04:04:00.000-05:002008-08-13T04:04:00.000-05:00this might sound odd, but i wouldnot birth a jerk....this might sound odd, but i would<BR/>not birth a jerk. you're a fantastic guy and i think you're a<BR/>wonderful person. none of the<BR/>children that i carried and raised<BR/>have turned out to be jerks. so<BR/>there! if i may say so, you're my<BR/>eldest boy and i love you to<BR/>creation. you're my bestest friend<BR/>and i think you're a super person.<BR/>no jerk ever!!!! love - momAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8182600.post-60187150294431485052008-08-13T04:01:00.000-05:002008-08-13T04:01:00.000-05:00this might sound odd, but i wouldnot birth a jerk....this might sound odd, but i would<BR/>not birth a jerk. you're a fantastic guy and i think you're a<BR/>wonderful person. none of the<BR/>children that i carried and raised<BR/>have turned out to be jerks. so<BR/>there! if i may say so, you're my<BR/>eldest boy and i love you to<BR/>creation. you're my bestest friend<BR/>and i think you're a super person.<BR/>no jerk ever!!!! love - momAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8182600.post-77145428763224223332008-08-13T03:08:00.000-05:002008-08-13T03:08:00.000-05:00You're not a jerk. Trust me, if you were, I'd tell...You're not a jerk. Trust me, if you were, I'd tell you. Friends are a funny thing, sometimes you have them, even if they can't be present. You have many friends here, people who appreciate your questioning mind.<BR/><BR/>I'm around the corner, with a sense of humor, some booze, a shoulder to lean on and whatever else you might need from a friend.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com