tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8182600.post2661634037668450363..comments2023-10-20T03:20:00.060-05:00Comments on chez bez: Becoming Fearlesschez bezhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12916276882977632803noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8182600.post-36971226403971312212006-09-06T19:19:00.000-05:002006-09-06T19:19:00.000-05:00I went there too when I got the e-mail.
I realize ...I went there too when I got the e-mail.<br />I realize that I sabotage myself much more than others sabotage me.<br />I'm making some changes, and terrified.<br />P.S. I still dig your new look on Chez.Newscomahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06314104886871823355noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8182600.post-50141255794672850092006-09-06T15:50:00.000-05:002006-09-06T15:50:00.000-05:00love your bloglove your blogSayville Lez 68https://www.blogger.com/profile/13499234346926849449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8182600.post-1099007055965786662006-09-06T01:35:00.000-05:002006-09-06T01:35:00.000-05:00This is awesome, I will definitely look too :)This is awesome, I will definitely look too :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8182600.post-59128571252124128262006-09-06T00:44:00.000-05:002006-09-06T00:44:00.000-05:00i am definitely following that link.i am definitely following that link.Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06909157309361821142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8182600.post-7149137327722353832006-09-05T17:47:00.000-05:002006-09-05T17:47:00.000-05:00as one who has faced and dissolved a lot of fear i...as one who has faced and dissolved a lot of fear in her life, i have a few thoughts.<br /><br />if it is a fear you have faced, yet still persists, perhaps there is something more going on. sometimes it is such a habit that it forms a good bit of your identity. who would you be if you moved past it? <br /><br />sometimes an underlying issue hasn't yet been uncovered. maybe the thing is that you love being close to your family and aside from the money, you're happy with what you're doing.<br /><br />my philosophy is that if what you're doing isn't working, maybe there's another method. perhaps rather than trying to conquer the fear, you try just sitting with it. make friends with it. ask the fearful part of yourself, why are you still here? if you really give yourself that quiet acceptance, you may be surprised at the answer, and it may be more positive than you think.<br /><br />another way is to come at it sideways. think of the fear as a bit of yourself that is a frightened little animal. if you come at it head-on, it cowers and hides, but if you approach softly you might reach it to pet it. can you find a way to sneak up on it?<br /><br />Arianna's method may work for some. i have found though that fear can indeed dissolve with deeper understanding...not just intellectual understanding, but emotional. conquering works for some, but for others it just makes it a bigger thing. getting to know it makes it a smaller thing.<br /><br />love your photos. you're making me want to visit nashville.Heidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01555381490834134232noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8182600.post-44325589761560773482006-09-05T16:10:00.000-05:002006-09-05T16:10:00.000-05:00Thank you for that quote. I'm going to type it up ...Thank you for that quote. I'm going to type it up and put it on my monitor frame and in my car.<br /><br />It's the motivation I need to move on from some stuff that's making me unhappier by the day.<br /><br />Thanks!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com